It is one of the hardest and most emotional decisions anyone has to make whether to let their elderly parents move in. This choice is often based on cultural, emotional, and practical factors, and it can affect personal space and financial security.

A woman told her story.

There was a 33-year-old woman who told her story and said she had been living alone for a few years. She paid cash for the house and worked hard to make it a safe and comfortable place to live, especially since she grew up in a very unstable place.

Even though she tries to help her parents manage their budget, her parents, who are now in their 60s, have always been bad with money and always make bad choices.

“My parents recently lost their house to foreclosure. They asked if they could stay with me for a short time while they figured things out.” But I would really dislike having two more adults in my house because I like my privacy and being alone.

I think it’s more important that my parents often cross the line and bother me. When they stayed with me last, they said bad things about my way of life, moved my furniture around without asking, and even got into a fight with one of my neighbors.

“I offered to pay their first month’s rent and suggested that I help them find a cheap place to live.” I also looked into government aid programs that they could use. They turned down my offer, though, saying that family should help each other and that it was my job to be there for them during this tough time.

Different family members have different thoughts about me. My older brother believes I’m being cold, but my younger sister understands my worries. Each of them lives in a small apartment, so neither can take in our parents.

“My parents have been trying to make me feel bad by telling me that they raised me and now it’s my turn to care for them.” Also, they’ve been telling our extended family that I’m leaving them, which has caused family members to send me mean messages. This makes me question my choice, even though I know that if they moved in, it would be bad for my mental health.

Was it wrong of me to turn them down after they lost their home? Should I be more flexible, or is it okay to put my own needs and limits first? I have a lot of mixed feelings and could use some outside advice.

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