Some people can tell when their loved ones are sick, which isn’t strange. A woman may love romantic acts from her partner, but if they happen out of the blue, she might start to doubt them. This is what happened to a Reddit user. She finally figured out why her husband was acting strangely and left him, but then she had to make a choice.

This is her story.

Recently, my (30m) husband (25f) has been acting very strange. He stays out late without a reason, leaves very early, and gives me expensive gifts for no reason. I’m not naive, so I knew he was cheating when I put two and two together.

I didn’t want to open his things, look through his phone, or follow him on social media, so I sat on the couch and waited for him to get home. When he got home, I told him to sit down and asked if he was taking a second look. He was honest and told me he was. He then said sorry, that it didn’t matter, and that it wouldn’t happen again.

I really don’t trust him, and a relationship can’t last without trust. That’s why I went upstairs and packed my things. As I was leaving, he chased after me and begged me to stop and give him a chance. I just left after packing up.

Since I left three days ago, I’ve gotten a lot of texts, emails, and voicemails asking how I could leave without even trying to fix things. They also say that if I ever loved him, I would want to stay and get through this, and that every couple has hard times.

It’s hard for me to decide what to do because he was my first love and I won’t forget that feeling overnight. But on the other hand, he broke my trust, and he’ll never earn it back.

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