Do you know how healthy your relationship is? Have you ever done a secret test, like waiting for your partner to text you first? Relationship experts say that these sneaky tests can hurt your relationship. One Reddit user had this happen to them; you can read about it in our article.

The person told his story online.

She broke up with me when I was sixteen. I felt sorry for myself and begged her to take me back. I loved her so much that I thought I couldn’t live without her. I was a fool.

Now that I’m 25, I swore I would never do that again. I’ve been in a few relationships and a few flings. I’m sad, but not weak, when they end.

We had been together for almost a year and a half. We kissed and made out after meeting at a work event.

We talked about moving in together not long ago to save money in our pricey city. It was a puzzle because I own my own apartment and hers is bigger.

She told me out of the blue last weekend that she thought we were moving too quickly and wanted to end the relationship because she wasn’t sure I was fully committed. I said yes. It turned out to be a test to see if I would fight for her. Then she went crazy.

I told her I’d pack up her things and let her pick them up. She told her I was a heartless jerk who used her. I wasn’t. I thought we could be together, but I wasn’t ready to ask her to marry me yet. We met the families of each other and spent Christmas together last year. My family adores her. I loved her.

They called to see what was going on. I think they think I’m being stubborn. Sister calls me a jerk because I won’t forgive my ex.

The last time I cried myself to sleep over a girl, I swore I would never do that again.

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