There are unspoken rules about personal hygiene that people in a relationship follow. Every day, you expect your partner to take a shower, brush their teeth, and wash their whole body. It’s too bad that not all expectations are met. That’s exactly what happened in the story today. Hold on tight, because this trip isn’t like any other.

She told what took place.

I just found out that my boyfriend doesn’t wash his behind in the shower. While we were in the shower together, I saw that he put soap in his hand and gently rubbed it over his body. He said that he doesn’t use a loofah, washcloth, or anything else to shower.

I saw that he didn’t wash his behind either. He explained that he cleans his behind by letting the water run over it in the shower.

I tried to understand because it’s possible that his parents never taught him how to take a shower properly. After that, I taught him. From what I remember, we agreed that he would do that. All of that took place on Saturday.

It’s Tuesday now, and I asked him if he had washed his behind since we last talked. He said no, putting his hand in there to wash it was gross to him. I’m starting to pull away from the relationship this time. I think it’s weird that he’s an adult and doesn’t take care of himself. He believes that he needs some time to get used to the idea.

I am not sure if I am being too mean to him or if my desire to end things is right. Should I dump the best partner I’ve ever had because of this?

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