Think about having a friendship that lasts for decades and is based on trust and shared experiences. Picture that bond being broken in an instant. That’s what happened to the main character, a 34-year-old woman, on her big day. After putting up with her best friend’s mean behavior for over 20 years, she wrote a letter that showed how hurt and disappointed she was.

These two women seemed to have an unbreakable friendship.

Alyson, 34, wrote a heartfelt letter online about a hard time she had with Miranda, 35, a friend she has had all her life. Alyson told her story, “Last weekend, my best friend from childhood got married.” I was so happy to be with her on her unique day. Things got worse, though.

For more information, Alyson said, “As soon as Miranda asked me to be her bridesmaid, she made a list of requirements.” She made me wear a dress and heels, dye my hair, get a tan, and even cover up my tattoos with body makeup to make me look more “girly.”

Alyson explained why she felt uncomfortable by saying, “Being a tomboy since I was a teenager, dressing that way felt very strange to me.” For my friend’s sake, though, I agreed to everything except growing my hair out. Miranda later told Alyson that she was no longer needed as a bridesmaid, despite her best efforts. This made Alyson feel hurt and confused about what happened.

As the planning for the wedding went on, Alyson became more and more angry with the situation.

Alyson went on, “Even though Miranda’s demands about how I look and her decision to remove me as a bridesmaid made our relationship rough, I gladly agreed to help with the wedding favors and dessert table.” She talked about putting in extra work, saying, “I put my whole heart and soul into making a beautiful dessert display that was the highlight of the party.”

The bad thing is that things got worse when Miranda talked to Alyson about cutting costs. “She dropped the bombshell that my husband wasn’t invited because of the cost,” Alyson said, feeling angry and sad at the same time. She tried to be understanding even though she was upset, saying, “Even though I was upset, I tried to be supportive and even offered a discount for my services as a wedding gift.”

Her comment was, “Miranda’s rude behavior didn’t end there.”

Alyson wrote, “After a month, Miranda told me that my husband could go to the wedding, but if he did, I would be moved away from the head table.” Since Miranda and her fiancé didn’t have a videographer, her husband, a wedding photographer, suggested making a professional video of the wedding.

Miranda suggested that they sit at the vendor table so they could work with other vendors because she was excited about the offer. “We agreed to sit with the vendors because we thought it was a great idea,” Alyson said.

Things went badly wrong on the wedding day, though. Alyson said, “My husband filmed while I set up the dessert table when we got there early to help.” When we were moved to the party room after the ceremony, I was shocked to see that our names were not on the list of people who were supposed to be sitting there. They were locked in a separate room and couldn’t join in with the reception festivities. They had no way to interact with or connect with the party.

Alyson was deeply hurt by everything that took place.

Alyson said, “When Miranda told us to sit in a different room, I asked her to explain.” She admitted there was a mistake, but she didn’t do anything to fix it. We missed most of the wedding because we were separated from the reception. I cried in the bathroom all night while my husband filmed the event because I still wanted to make them a beautiful video.

Alyson came to this conclusion about what happened: “I reached out to Miranda afterward and told her how hurt I was.” She said she was sorry and said she was just a little confused that day. Even though she said she was sorry, I no longer want to be friends with her.

That wasn’t the last thing Miranda did.

Friends of both of them were interested in what went wrong between Alyson and Miranda so quickly. “I tried to keep it short because I didn’t want to get into all the messy details,” Alyson said. But this plan went wrong when Miranda started telling her own version of what happened.

“Some friends came up to me and told me I should say sorry to Miranda and forgive her more since it was her wedding.” At the end of the day, Miranda was making me look like the bad guy by saying I hit her without a reason. They were telling lies about the truth, which made Alyson angry, but she chose to tell their friends the truth. She ended by saying that this event made her think about the friends she chooses in the future.

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