I ran away from our family trip after my son gave me an embarrassing ultimatum.

A grandmother had a family emergency while on a trip with her only son and his family. She quickly made a choice because she knew how important it was to stand up for herself and keep her independence within the family. She looked for advice online because she wasn’t sure if her response was right.

In her letter, she said:

“Hey,

I am 68 years old and have one son named Richard. His three kids, who are my grandchildren, are the best things in the world to me. Richard planned a trip with his wife, kids, and himself two weeks ago, and he wanted me to go with them. At first, I hesitated because I was worried about being responsible with money. I didn’t have enough money for a trip because I had to pay for medical bills. Then, out of the blue, my son told me he wanted to take me on the trip and pay for everything. I loved how kind he was to invite me. I eagerly packed my bags because I was excited to spend quality time with my family and friends.

We were all starving on the first day of our vacation, after a long day of cultural tours with the grandchildren. We made reservations at a nice restaurant for dinner. As I was getting ready to leave, my son walked into my room out of the blue with a big box. He smiled and asked, “Oh, Mom, why are you all dressed up?! “This is dinner for you and your kids.” “Did you really think this vacation was going to be free, Mom?” he asked, seeing the shock on my face. In the evenings, you’ll have to watch the kids. There are shows and concerts that my wife and I have planned for every night.

When I heard this, I stopped moving. I was hurt and betrayed a lot. I chose to leave the vacation early because it was better for my mental health than what my family wanted. That night, Richard left me to take care of his three kids, so I called the travel agency and changed my return flight. I left the hotel the next morning and flew back home without telling anyone.

Now, my son and daughter-in-law text and call me all the time, which makes me feel bad about what I did. In their messages, I only hear blame and no sense of guilt. It’s still important to me to have self-respect and set personal boundaries, but I’m now dealing with guilt and doubt, wondering if I overreacted or acted too quickly. In a week, they’ll be back from their trip. What should I do about this when I see my son and his wife? We value your opinion and advice a great deal.

Sincerely,
Marta”

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