She’ll Never Forget My Response to My Husband’s Daughter Calling Me a Gold Digger

To get through the complicated dynamics of a stepfamily, you need to be patient, understand, and sometimes stand up for yourself when you’re being judged unfairly. One woman in this story had to go to great lengths to keep herself safe.

She told us what happened.

My husband Rob (52M) and I have been married for 4 years. The wife of my late husband died a year before we met. We dated for two years before getting married. She is 28 years old and her brother is 26 years old. Because they told me I’m not their stepmother, I’m not calling them my stepkids. I’m just their dad’s wife. Since I didn’t help raise them, that’s fine with me.

We’ve always had a bad relationship. I’ve done my best to be nice to them and shared when I could, but they’re not friendly with me at all. As the child of divorce, I understand what it’s like for a parent to move on, so I try not to push anything.

The other day Madison got engaged, which makes us happy. She asked us for a wedding budget when we all got together not long ago. Rob told her that he could give $10,000. She wanted more for her wedding than this, which made her angry, and she kept asking for more. But Rob is still putting in a lot of effort to get his savings back up.

When his wife died, he had to spend all of his savings, cash out his 401k, and even take out a small mortgage on his house to pay for medical bills and other costs of living since he couldn’t work as much. He had to quit that job in the end to take one that was more flexible but paid less, so this $10,000 is really kind of him.

Rob left to do something, leaving me and his kids alone. Then Madison asked me if I was going to give any extra on top of what her dad was giving. I informed her that my partner and I were married and that was the amount we agreed upon as a fair contribution.

“I should have known,” she said. “You married an older man for what he had, not for what you could give.” She had said some mean things before, but this was the worst thing she’s ever said to me. What did I say? “Excuse me, who do you think has been paying the second mortgage your dad took out to pay his bills?”

To be honest, I make a lot more money than her dad, I don’t owe anyone anything, and I’ve been paying 70% of the bills for our whole marriage. The $10,000 we’re giving her is possible because I’ve been able to help pay for her dad’s living costs for the past few years. I made it clear that I’m not after money, and that I actually have more money than my “older husband.”

After this, she yelled at me and stormed out. Afterward, she called her dad and said I told her I thought her mother was sick because she didn’t have enough money for the wedding. When I told him what happened, he was mad at her and told me I shouldn’t have told his kids about his money.

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