There was a letter from a 37-year-old woman that sounded like a plea for help. The woman saw her husband doing something very bad, and she can’t hold back her feelings. Things got even more complicated when our main character found out she was pregnant. As soon as she told her husband the good news, horrible things began to happen in the family. Let’s learn more about her complicated story and give her some good advice.

Helen saw that something was wrong but not in time to do anything about it.

When Helen, 37, wrote us a letter, it was full of sadness. It was clear that she is at a turning point in her life. She began her letter by saying, “Hi!” Okay, let’s do this. My loving husband Jason doesn’t follow my rules when it comes to a coworker of his. Jason works with women most of the time because that’s how his job works. He doesn’t treat one of them differently or better than anyone else at work. You’re getting this letter because I need to vent and maybe get some advice.

She also said, “At times I think I’m crazy or wrong for asking Jason to change some things about his relationship with her.” They are about the same age. They’re both married too. So they’ve worked together for years and I just now found a problem. It’s likely been about a year since this happened. Seven months ago, I got pregnant, and Jason didn’t want kids.

The way Helen’s husband behaved was strange and rude.

Here’s what else the woman says: “This turned into some very hurtful and horrible things my husband did and said to me.” In the end, he told me that he no longer loved me and that they haven’t been happy together for a long time. He also said that he was lying when he said that he was happy with me.

Putting those things aside, I felt very lonely while I was pregnant and often thought about getting a divorce because of how he looked at me. Right away, he put his coworker on a pedestal and seemed to like everything she posted or that was posted about her on the job page.

“Jason stopped responding to anything I posted at all,” the woman said. My friend added me on social media because I had decided before I found out I was pregnant that I would try to get along with her and become friends with her. Looking into things and being present during some conversations let me learn some bad things.

Helen told a lot of new things about how her husband felt about his coworker.

In the next part of her story, Helen says, “I learned that he helped her choose a wedding dress.” He even got a video message from her at the wedding telling him it was her dream wedding. He either doesn’t say anything about my clothes when I ask him what he thinks of them or says, “Well, I wouldn’t wear that.”

The woman said, “Jason bought her two Apple Watch bands that were made just for her.” He used his own credit card to pay for them, so I wouldn’t be able to see the transaction. The items were sent to his workplace, so I wouldn’t even see the package. According to what I learned, they went to a convention together for work and that’s where he got her mom’s phone number. Now he talks to her mom too!”

“They’ve been using a social app together for MONTHS.” He said no when I asked him a while ago if he would like to join so that we can share locations. Then I learned from a message on his phone’s lock screen that he and his coworker do use the app to share where they are. It took him three weeks to add me to the app, and I had to beg him to do it.

Things are getting even worse, and the woman is in a terrible situation.

Helen wrote, “His coworker recently deleted and blocked me on social media. When I asked Jason why, he said it was because I told him I didn’t want her at the hospital when I gave birth to our baby.”

There is so much going on between Helen’s husband and his coworker that the woman can’t keep quiet any longer. “My husband also added her mother on social media, and she added his sister on Facebook,” she said. This is really strange, especially since he told me they’ve only met a few times. Every day, he also responds to her mother’s posts, which are also about her.

She also said, “Every day they call and text each other, sometimes about work and sometimes not.” Jason has only the letter “K” for her name saved in his phone. He says it’s a joke only the two of them know.
In light of all this, when I tell him I don’t like how they’re dating, he tells me to forget about it, deal with it, and move on. He keeps saying that nothing is going on. But I can’t shake the feeling that there might be. Do you believe I’m reacting too much? “In that case, what would you do?”

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