Young people living in an apartment in the city have a sudden test of their relationship. The boyfriend is in terrible pain while his girlfriend has a fun night out. He calls her in a panic, but she doesn’t answer. Read our piece to find out why it happened.
My girlfriend and I have been together since high school and are 22 years old. I always thought she would be my wife. For her best friend’s birthday last weekend, she went to a club with her friends, but I stayed home. I felt terrible pain in my right testicle all of a sudden. It turned out to be a torsion.
I called and texted her to ask for help, but she didn’t answer. So I texted her that something was wrong and she should come home right away. It only takes about 5 minutes to walk to the club she went to from our apartment. She thought I was joking and meant to ruin their night. “What is it?” was all she said in response.
When I tried to call her again, she just said no, as expected. After that, I texted her that I had to go to the hospital right away. She texted me that now wasn’t the time to mess around, and she threatened to block my number if I texted or called her again. I tried to call her again, but she said no again. The second time I tried to call, I saw that she had blocked me.
She didn’t understand how bad it was until she got home, smelled vomit, and saw that I wasn’t there. I ended up in the hospital, and she stayed with me while she apologized a lot.
Even though she said she was sorry and cared afterward, her first reaction hurt me a lot. I felt betrayed when you ignored my frantic calls and texts while I was in a lot of pain. The pain isn’t the only thing that hurts; I also felt alone when I needed her the most.
To be fair, I know she thought I was joking when I said I was thinking about ending our relationship. I didn’t mind that she went out, though, and I’ve never played jokes on her when she got home from a night out. I’m angry at her and I love her at the same time. Following this event, I’m not sure what to do or if I can trust her again.
